Kept things very short and sweet with
Cheyenne tonight. Today at work when I got bored, I wrote out my
guidelines for tonight: don't worry about how long it takes, giver her
space, don't worry about speed (this is a big one with me), and don't
push.
Circling to the left was surprisingly better than to the
right! A lot of tension on the 22' line during the canter (normally I am
always pushing her out to the end of it, reminding her to broaden the
circle) but she didn't take too long to figure out the circumference she
was working with and a few laps into it gave me a nice consistent
canter circle. Transition down to a trot was good, and with a few
reminders to stop pulling on the rope and relax, I had a good trot. Walk
was great first lap. Going to the right, canter took about three times
as long to get. I sadly didn't count my laps tonight, but she was more
worried about running fast instead of paying attention to the tautness
of the rope. Several suggestions later to get off the rope, I was
getting good at making a correction and going back to neutral! I
realized I was blaming her and focused more on what and how I was
asking. Once she got a little energy out she was able to think, not
break gait, and give me a nice circle :) yay! Trotting right also took
more time, as well as the walk, to get a good relaxed lap without
breaking gait. While at the walk, about two laps into it she began
licking and chewing, and I brought her right in. What a fabulous point
to end at - the thinking/processing part!
Sideways from cone to
cone seems to be a big hit for her, and I made a conscious effort to
keep her at least 4 feet from me, and to NOT RUSH her. I am definitely
not helping my extreme RBE when I make her feel rushed and wrong all the
time by making her go quickly, micromanaging, and making constant
corrections. So tonight I did the opposite of all that, and got some
more relaxed, and towards the end, confident, side passes :) We did a
victory jump over the 3 footer and called it a night after a little bit
of touch-it :) Things went really well. I just am learning to make a
mental effort to be more aware of what and how I am asking her to do. My
first real steps towards level three thinking and refinement!! :) I'm
not gonna lie, this little breakthrough is exciting!!